I've been visiting escorts for a half year so far and getting along, relaxing, finding that sexual atmosphere with an escorts is very difficult to me, probably because im too nervous when meeting new girls. What would be, and is there any solution to fix that?
Booking an escort for a 2 hour session or meeting her for lunch before the session to get to know her a bit might loosen you up. I wouldn't recommend you drugs or alcohol, it could numb your sensation and reduce excitement.
Go to the pub, make acquaintances, try to chat with girls. It will help you to overcome that anxiety of meeting new people and your small talk skills will become better which will help you a lot to click with the escorts.
I would suggest you do the same as @Banana Split, just don't rush and don't expect results right away. it's a long term thing, just be determined and persistent and changes will eventually come. Good luck!
Try to engage in ordinary conversation more, the more you guys talk the more relaxed you'll become. At some point you'll feel more connected and approaching her will be a lot easier.
Arrange the services you want beforehand, a lots of meetings were ruined because of misleading info and inappropriate way of setting up meetings...
Don't rush, be spontaneous, act like a gentlemen, have a small talk first to get know each other, but also gradually start with touching, stroking her hair and getting closer and closer, eventually you'll start with groping and snogging around and that's it, everything else will be go with the flow thing. Be aware that you're there to get laid and not to make acquaintances, don't spend too much of your time talking about her life or something.
BossaliniI've been visiting escorts for a half year so far and getting along, relaxing, finding that sexual atmosphere with an escorts is very difficult to me, probably because im too nervous when meeting new girls. What would be, and is there any solution to fix that?
My experience with escort ladies has been mainly in Thailand and not in Canada. But I can tell you how one Thai escort lady got me.
We were sitting at an open air bar, chatting and being friendly and nice. I was basically in her friend zone, and she was in mine. We had nothing sexual going on. Everything was decent, proper, and modest.
Then this Thai lady I was sitting with suddenly reached with her hand for my nipple, pinched it through my T-shirt, and she held it like that for a long time, while smiling at me. I had to respond. And I responded in kind. I also reached for her tit, found her nipple through her T-shirt and bra. And I also pinched her nipple and held it for a long time. I pinched her nipple just enough to get a good feel. It was just for fun. Nothing painful. We held each other's nipples like that for a while. And at the end of it, I was her boyfriend alright. She me going for a ride, not just once or twice, but many times. I stayed with her for a long time.
This Thai lady knew how to break the ice with guys. And she was good at it too.
Basically, the lady is unlikely to get accused of sexual harassment, even if she grabs your nipple. Because the nipples of guys aren't normally seen as sexual. But when the lady grabs and holds your nipple, then she is kind of giving you permission to do the same with her. And if you grab and hold her nipple through her clothing, then this will definitely break the ice between you and her. Because this isn't friend zone anymore. You are doing something sexual with her.
Guys are penalized so much for being improper with sexy ladies, that it's hard for nice guys to break the ice. Only obnoxious guys are good at it. Because obnoxious guys don't care about following rules and doing something improper that might make the lady feel uncomfortable. This is one of the reasons why nice guys finish last, and it's the obnoxious guys who get the ladies in society.
But with escort ladies this should be different. The escort lady should help you break the ice and get sexual with her, the way my Thai lady helped me.
Perhaps you should try going with Asian escort ladies. Asian culture is different. They have many shy guys, more than in the western societies. And that's why an Asian escort lady might know exactly what to do with you. It might even come naturally to her, without her realizing that she is doing something special with you.
Nice explanation. I find Asian girls, especially Thai escorts, significantly more relaxed compared with other escorts. Also they are more obliging and always look to please a client.
I’ve read some escort interviews, where the lady says, “You wouldn’t believe how many guys just talk and have dinner, and they don’t do anything sexual.” And the lady explains it in an innocent way. She thinks that these guys are just lonely, they want some company, and they don’t want sex.
Perhaps there’s a huge misunderstanding between such ladies and their guys.
These guys want sex. But they don’t know how to break the ice, and get sexual with the lady. So, they talk, have dinner, and go away very disappointed. While the escort lady doesn’t even realize that her date with the guy went badly wrong.
Perhaps this is a cultural thing. Because one time I’ve seen how a Mexican guy behaved with his Mexican escort lady.
They arranged their meeting online. And he came to pick her up in a taxi. She opened the door to get into the taxi. So, he grabbed her tit and kissed her on the lips, while she was getting in. She yelled something at him in Spanish, and he let her go. She got into the taxi and continued to chat with him, as if her earlier interaction with him was perfectly normal.
I don’t know if a Canadian lady would react the same way. But the Mexican lady was okay with it. I think she yelled at the guy because she couldn’t get into the taxi, and not because he grabbed her tit.
That Mexican dude knows how to break ice. As for the guys who take escorts to dinner dates, they're hopeless cases.
